Squirting: What Is It Really & Why It Happens
Beforehand, try bathing or showering together, or treat yourselves to professional massages. Since penises and many dildos don’t tend to move in a “come hither” motion, penis-in-vagina intercourse might not provide the kind of direct, intense stimulation needed for squirting. Some people who squirt say that vigorous movement and/or intense penetration helps them make it happen.
During climax, when you do have an increase in the amount of secretions that are built up, and then during ejaculation, some of that can be released. There are some women that obviously can do more than others, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s better. It’s a big topic that I have with some of my patients, because I think women feel that they have to do this. But, that’s actually something that has come about because of social perception, which I think actually comes from pornography.
When it comes to the most intense ways to reach your climax, squirting is surely up there. While squirting may be a magical experience for a girl, making a girl squirt doesn’t just happen magically. It takes some real skills and a little bit of exploring before you get to that point. To sum up, the clitoris, the G-spot, and a structure called the urethral sponge are all intimately linked. Under certain circumstances, these glands will secrete about a teaspoon of fluid that ejects from the urethra when you squirt.
Before you head for the actual action, you first need to get the setting right. When it comes to getting her to squirt, rushing into things isn’t going to help you. It’s not going to be a quickie so you’re going to put more time and effort than usual. But seeing your girl sprawled out in bed, moaning in pleasure and heady with lust, is a huge ego booster and not to mention hot as hell.
Meg, a 40-year-old, cis bisexual woman in Brooklyn, said that having her partners touch her all over during sex helps her get there. “Once we’re having sex, clitoral and nipple stimulation, followed by intense penetration (of any kind), leads to [me] squirting enough to soak the mattress woman squirt,” she said. When this G-spot is stimulated repeatedly, the body goes into overdrive with pleasure and sends a signal to the kidneys.
By familiarizing yourself with your anatomy, preparing mentally and physically, and practicing the right techniques, you can increase your chances of experiencing squirting. Remember, every woman’s body is unique, and there’s no right or wrong way to experience pleasure. Embrace your sexual journey with an open mind and a sense of curiosity, and you may discover new depths of enjoyment and satisfaction. As you get closer to squirting, you’ll likely notice certain signs, such as increased vaginal sensitivity, a swelling sensation in the G-Spot area, and a heightened sense of pleasure. Some women describe the feeling as a build-up of pressure or an intense tingling.